Wikipedia defines sexual harassment as "intimidation, bullying or coercion of a sexual nature, or the unwelcome or inappropriate promise of rewards in exchange for sexual favors."
Some may think this explanation is a bit broad, but as a girl any sort of unwanted attention from men, in whatever form, can be the most uncomfortable and frustrating interaction. And these past few months in Jerusalem have shown me just how jarring it can be.
Walking around in East Jerusalem is not as peaceful as it should be with nearly every man honking, screaming and starring. Now, I don't want to stereotype, but most of the time these are Arab men and their culture of objectifying women is reflected in their social interaction with even complete strangers. Going to the grocery store or for a jog can be an emotionally traumatizing experience when you hear "sweetheart," "slut," and even "I want to fuck you" screamed every few moments.
Now, living in East Jerusalem and dealing with sexual harassment is difficult, but on my trip to Morocco I encountered the mecca of Arab men "swooning" for my female attention. On my 100 meter walk from the hostel to the center of town in Marrakech me and my friend Margaux were harassed by at least fifty men. And these guys were the worst: with the most sexually disgusting remarks, physical gestures and even pulling at us! Morocco was beautiful, but the men and their behavior leave something to be desired.
Although I know this blog will most likely not reach the ears and eyes of those exhibiting such behavior, I just felt the need to write it. Whether for my own personal gratification or just to explain such experiences to those on the web. I just hope that respect for women can be valued more in all cultures, and some day a female's walk to Mr. Zol in Jerusalem won't include a barrage of sexual comments from creepy men.
